Giving

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. -Winston Churchill

 

 

Time. Money. Games and toys. Work.

Whatever you decide to give, what will remain true is that you are giving something of yourself. Some part of you is tied up in all of these. Time is terribly important to us, it's a fleeting commodity, and we are only beginning to realize as a society that we give it away far too easily. You are paid to be at your job from 8 to 5, and the rest of the time is yours...except for the time you have to spend on your Blackberry on the ride in to work, dealing with yesterday's problems. And the time you spend on the phone after you get home at night, putting out a fire half way across the world where people are only now working their own 8 to 5 shift. And the weekends when you have to head back into the office to finish the project that you didn't have time to finish by Friday. And the evenings when each child has a different sport or league or meeting in three different locations.

What does that leave you? A half hour each day? How are you going to spend it?

What if you didn't have that half hour either? What if that was when you were driving to your second job? Or when you were sitting with your child in the hospital room? Or when you are out looking for more work, or when you're sorting through your destroyed belongings, trying to salvage what you can? Time is important, but one thing is certain: a half hour spent helping people who don't have the time or means to help themselves is far more meaningful than the best sitcom.

Money is both the cause of and solution to so many of our problems. "If only I had enough money to..." We all say it. And many of us cannot understand how there can be people who would end that sentence with "...increase my hedge fund portfolio", when we end that sentence with "...repair that leak in my roof." But consider that there are people who's own ends to that sentence would shock us for different reasons. We're in an economic crisis--it's hard on all of us. But consider who it's hardest on. There are all too many people who complete that sentence with something like the following:

If only I had enough money to...

  • ...buy Christmas presents for my children.
  • ...move back home and rebuild my house.
  • ...get away from my abusive spouse.
  • ...buy a cheap car so I can find a decent job.
  • ...pay my mortgage and the hospital bills.
 
Everybody can be great. Because anybody can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't have to make your subject and your verb agree to serve.... You don't have to know the second theory of thermodynamics in physics to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love. -Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
 
No matter who you are, there is something you can do. I promise. We are not telling you to give your time to us. We're not telling you to give your money to us. We're not telling you to give your games or toys or blankets or your work and sweat to us. We're asking you to give some of it to somebody, somewhere. It's easier than you think, and there's rarely any commitment if it turns out to be too hard.
 
Wherever a man turns he can find someone who needs him. -Albert Schweitzer